Do you feel like your relationship isn't quite what it used to be? To help you revive your relationship, we've reviewed a serious body of research to bring you the 10 most powerful, scientifically proven ways to improve virtually any relationship. These tips also happen to be the key ingredients that go into making a good relationship work, so even if you think everything’s great, you can use this list as a diagnostic tool to make sure you and your partner are on the road to relationship bliss.
its a choice we make in life either to find solutions to the problems we face in our lives or we live with it.
we will take you on a series of step by step tips if only you are ready for change
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# 1.Accept the unsolvable
Unfortunately, according to relationship scientist John Gottman, 69% of
relationship conflicts are persistent problems, meaning they revolve
around issues that tend to resurface no matter how long you’ve been
together. If you find a problem seems to call up painful emotions, you’re looking at one that’s persistent.
To stop this trouble from ruining your relationship, you’ll need to address the bigger issues underlying your difficulty. Take turns discussing with your partner what this loaded issue really means to you. When your partner is talking, your job is to listen, be non-judgemental and to find something in her perspective that makes sense to you. When it’s your turn to talk, she should be doing the same thing. By treading more gently into touchy areas, you should at least be able to agree to disagree or make some small concessions for one another. Join us as we take the the lessons step by step.
in our next lesson we will be looking at step 2.... FOCUS ON WHAT'S FIXABLE . SEE YOU THERE.
To stop this trouble from ruining your relationship, you’ll need to address the bigger issues underlying your difficulty. Take turns discussing with your partner what this loaded issue really means to you. When your partner is talking, your job is to listen, be non-judgemental and to find something in her perspective that makes sense to you. When it’s your turn to talk, she should be doing the same thing. By treading more gently into touchy areas, you should at least be able to agree to disagree or make some small concessions for one another. Join us as we take the the lessons step by step.
in our next lesson we will be looking at step 2.... FOCUS ON WHAT'S FIXABLE . SEE YOU THERE.
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